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Smoke cigars, do you?” asks my father in surprise and…

“Smoke cigars, do you?” asks my father in surprise and almost reprovingly. I look at him with a certain wonderment. “But of course,” I reply. “They were part of the ration out there. We got three or four every day. Will you have one?” He takes it, shaking his head meanwhile. “You used not to smoke…” quote by Erich Maria Remarque
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““Smoke cigars, do you?” asks my father in surprise and almost reprovingly. I look at him with a certain wonderment. “But of course,” I reply. “They were part of the ration out there. We got three or four every day. Will you have one?” He takes it, shaking his head meanwhile. “You used not to smoke at all, before.” “Oh, yes, before—” I say and cannot help smiling that he should make such a story out of it. There are a lot of things I used not to do before, that’s a fact. But up the line there one soon lost any difference before one’s elders. We were all alike there.””

Erich Maria Remarque

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A father questions his son’s smoking, revealing how habits change and generations become similar over time.

In simple terms: People’s habits and attitudes shift, making generations alike.

Key Takeaway

Notice how habits evolve and bridge gaps.

Themes

family habits generational change identity war memory

Mood

reflective nostalgic thoughtful

Type

narrative conversational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • post-war reflection
  • family conversation
  • personal growth
  • cultural change

Key Concepts

social conformity nostalgia identity formation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do shared experiences shape family identity?
  • What habits have you adopted from older generations?
A Different Perspective

The anecdote may romanticize hardship, ignoring health risks of smoking.

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