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“Nora leaves her husband, not-as the stupid critic would have it-because she is tired of her responsibilities or feels the need of woman's rights, but because she has come to know that for eight years she had lived with a stranger and borne him children. Can there be anything more humiliating, more…” quote by Emma Goldman
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“Nora leaves her husband, not-as the stupid critic would have it-because she is tired of her responsibilities or feels the need of woman's rights, but because she has come to know that for eight years she had lived with a stranger and borne him children. Can there be anything more humiliating, more degrading than a life-long proximity between two strangers? No need for the woman to know anything of the man, save his income. As to the knowledge of the woman-what is there to know except that she has a pleasing appearance?”

Emma Goldman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She realizes her marriage is a hollow partnership, lacking intimacy and mutual recognition, prompting her to leave.

In simple terms: She leaves a marriage where she feels like a stranger.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and demand genuine connection.

Themes

marriage identity gender roles personal freedom

Mood

conflicted determined

Type

philosophical political

When to use this quote

  • leaving an unfulfilling marriage
  • seeking authentic relationships
  • advocating women's autonomy

Key Concepts

alienation self‑realization feminist critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does true partnership mean to you?
  • How can society support women seeking autonomy?
A Different Perspective

Leaving may cause social stigma and financial insecurity.

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