I mention this because there is the question of how…
““I mention this because there is the question of how children become aware of what the world is, and how to act in it. How, for example, do you learn that it is impolite to ask a couple why they have no children? How do you set a table? How do you know if you are chewing with your mouth open if no one has ever told you? How do you even know what you look like if the only mirror in the house is a tiny one high above the kitchen sink, or if you have never heard a living soul say that you are pretty, but rather, as your breasts develop, are told by your mother that you are starting to look like one of the cows in the Pedersons’ barn?””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Children learn social behavior through observation and guidance, not just explicit instruction.
In simple terms: Kids learn by watching and being told.
Key Takeaway
Teach norms through example and gentle correction.
Themes
socialization
learning
norms
Mood
thoughtful
educational
Type
reflective
instructive
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- workplace onboarding
Key Concepts
implicit learning
cultural transmission
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you teach subtle social cues?
- What role does media play in learning norms?
A Different Perspective
Some norms are culturally specific and may clash.