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“Well, well, I call her ‘little’ because her mother’s name is Mary. But, as I was saying, she takes Mary in a coaxing sort of way, and ‘Mary,’ says she, ‘what should you think if I sent for you some day and made a lady of you?’ So I could not stand such talk as that to my girl, and I said, ‘Thou’d…” quote by Elizabeth Gaskell
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““Well, well, I call her ‘little’ because her mother’s name is Mary. But, as I was saying, she takes Mary in a coaxing sort of way, and ‘Mary,’ says she, ‘what should you think if I sent for you some day and made a lady of you?’ So I could not stand such talk as that to my girl, and I said, ‘Thou’d best not put that nonsense i’ the girl’s head I can tell thee; I’d rather see her earning her bread by the sweat of brow, as the Bible tells her she should do, ay, though she never got butter to her bread, than be like a do-nothing lady, worrying shopmen all morning, and screeching at her pianny all afternoon, and going to bed without having done a good turn to any one of God’s creatures but herself.””

Elizabeth Gaskell

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A critique of gender expectations, urging women to earn their livelihood rather than be idle.

In simple terms: Women should work and be independent.

Key Takeaway

Promote self‑reliance and dignity of labor.

Themes

gender roles work ethic independence

Mood

reflective critical

Type

literary social commentary

When to use this quote

  • employment programs
  • education
  • women’s rights activism
  • family discussions

Key Concepts

feminism social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • What barriers still limit women’s economic freedom?
  • How can societies value all forms of work?
A Different Perspective

Historical context may differ from modern values.

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