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“Ways of loving from a distance, mating without even touching-Amor platonicus! The ladder of love one is expected to climb higher and higher, elating the Self and the Other. Plato clearly regards any actual physical contact as corrupt and ignoble because he thinks the true goal of Eros is beauty…” quote by Elif Safak
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“Ways of loving from a distance, mating without even touching-Amor platonicus! The ladder of love one is expected to climb higher and higher, elating the Self and the Other. Plato clearly regards any actual physical contact as corrupt and ignoble because he thinks the true goal of Eros is beauty. Is there no beauty in sex? Not according to Plato. He is after 'more sublime pursuits.' But if you ask me, I think Plato's problem, like those of many others, was that he never got splendidly laid.”

Elif Safak

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Plato sees physical love as inferior to the pursuit of ideal beauty, urging ascent toward intellectual and spiritual connection rather than bodily desire.

In simple terms: True love is about higher, non‑physical beauty.

Key Takeaway

Seek deeper connections beyond the physical.

Themes

philosophy love spirituality

Mood

contemplative thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • academic discourse
  • personal relationships
  • artistic inspiration

Key Concepts

Platonic love idealism asceticism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we honor both spiritual and physical love?
  • Is physical intimacy always corrupt?
A Different Perspective

Plato’s view may ignore the value of consensual, loving physical intimacy.

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