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“I met you under the balloon, on the occasion of your return from Norway; you asked if it was mine; I said it was. The balloon, I said, is a spontaneous autobiographical disclosure, having to do with the unease I felt at your absence, and with sexual deprivation, but now that your visit to Bergen…” quote by Donald Barthelme
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““I met you under the balloon, on the occasion of your return from Norway; you asked if it was mine; I said it was. The balloon, I said, is a spontaneous autobiographical disclosure, having to do with the unease I felt at your absence, and with sexual deprivation, but now that your visit to Bergen has been terminated, it is no longer necessary or appropriate. Removal of the balloon was easy; trailer trucks carried away the depleted fabric, which is now stored in West Virginia, awaiting some other time of unhappiness, some time, perhaps, when we are angry with one another.””

Donald Barthelme

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator uses a balloon as a metaphor for temporary emotional and sexual tension, which is discarded once the relationship ends, highlighting how we attach meaning to objects during longing.

In simple terms: A balloon symbolizes fleeting emotional needs that are discarded after a breakup.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and release symbolic burdens after relationships end.

Themes

loneliness sexual tension symbolism temporary attachments

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • breakup
  • personal reflection
  • emotional processing
  • artistic expression

Key Concepts

psychology metaphor attachment theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • What objects do you associate with emotional states?
  • How does discarding symbols affect healing?
A Different Perspective

The metaphor may oversimplify complex emotions into a single object.

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