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“It seems to me that no matter whether you marry, settle down or live with a bird or not, certain ones simply have your number on them, like bombs in the war; and even if you don’t happen to like them all that much there’s nothing you can do about it — unless you’re prepared to spend a lifetime…” quote by Derek Raymond
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““It seems to me that no matter whether you marry, settle down or live with a bird or not, certain ones simply have your number on them, like bombs in the war; and even if you don’t happen to like them all that much there’s nothing you can do about it — unless you’re prepared to spend a lifetime arguing fate out of existence, which you could probably do if you tried but I’m not the type. —Crust on Its Uppers, p. 87””

Derek Raymond

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Some people are destined to cause trouble, like hidden bombs, and fighting fate is futile unless you accept it.

In simple terms: Certain people are inevitable troublemakers.

Key Takeaway

Accept or avoid inevitable conflicts.

Themes

fate conflict relationships

Mood

reflective melancholy

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • cohabitation
  • friendships
  • workplace interactions

Key Concepts

determinism personal agency social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can we change our reactions to inevitable people?
  • When is it better to disengage?
A Different Perspective

Not all conflicts can be resolved through willpower.

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