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'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think…

“'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything.” quote by Debora Spar
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“'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything.”

Debora Spar

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The word “maybe” creates indecision, leading to guilt when expectations aren’t met.

In simple terms: Indecision fuels guilt when we overpromise.

Key Takeaway

Commit only to what you can realistically achieve.

Themes

commitment guilt self‑expectation

Mood

reflective motivational

Type

self‑help inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • personal goals
  • mental health
  • coaching

Key Concepts

behavioral economics gender studies

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you set realistic expectations?
  • What role does “maybe” play in your decision making?
A Different Perspective

Over‑commitment can also protect against missed opportunities.

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