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Self-cherishing, that’s by nature,” he said (by which I…

“Self-cherishing, that’s by nature,” he said (by which I assumed he meant it’s “natural”). “Without that, we human beings become like robots, no feeling. But now, practice for development of concern for well-being of others, that actually is immense benefit to oneself.” A light went off in my head…” quote by Dan Harris
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““Self-cherishing, that’s by nature,” he said (by which I assumed he meant it’s “natural”). “Without that, we human beings become like robots, no feeling. But now, practice for development of concern for well-being of others, that actually is immense benefit to oneself.” A light went off in my head. “It seems like you’re saying that there is a self-interested, or selfish, case for being compassionate?” “Yes. Practice of compassion is ultimately benefit to you. So I usually describe: we are selfish, but be wise selfish rather than foolish selfish.””

Dan Harris

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Compassion is framed as self‑interest; caring for others ultimately benefits oneself, encouraging wise selfishness over foolish selfishness.

In simple terms: Compassion helps you, so be wisely selfish.

Key Takeaway

Practice compassion for personal and communal gain.

Themes

ethics psychology self‑interest well‑being

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • team leadership
  • community service
  • personal development

Key Concepts

altruism mindfulness human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can selfish compassion become self‑serving?
  • How to balance personal gain with authentic care?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on self‑benefit may dilute genuine altruism.

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