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“If we are so contemptibly selfish that we can’t radiate a little happiness and pass on a bit of honest appreciation without trying to get something out of the other person in return – if our souls are no bigger than sour crab apples, we shall meet with the failure we so richly deserve.” quote by Dale Carnegie
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““If we are so contemptibly selfish that we can’t radiate a little happiness and pass on a bit of honest appreciation without trying to get something out of the other person in return – if our souls are no bigger than sour crab apples, we shall meet with the failure we so richly deserve.””

Dale Carnegie

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Selfishness limits genuine generosity; if we only give to receive, we fail morally.

In simple terms: Selfish motives corrupt true kindness.

Key Takeaway

Give without expecting return.

Themes

selfishness generosity morality

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace
  • community service
  • volunteering

Key Concepts

reciprocity ethical behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • What motivates your acts of kindness?
  • Can you practice giving without expectation?
A Different Perspective

People often expect something in return, making pure generosity rare.

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