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“Dining out is a vice, a dissipation of spirit punished by remorse. We eat, drink, and talk a little too much, abuse all our friends, belch out our literary preferences and are egged on by accomplices in the audience to acts of mental exhibitionism. Such evenings cannot fail to diminish those who…” quote by Cyril Connolly
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“Dining out is a vice, a dissipation of spirit punished by remorse. We eat, drink, and talk a little too much, abuse all our friends, belch out our literary preferences and are egged on by accomplices in the audience to acts of mental exhibitionism. Such evenings cannot fail to diminish those who take part in them. They end on Monkey Hill.”

Cyril Connolly

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Excessive social drinking and boasting erodes personal dignity and leaves lasting regret.

In simple terms: Overindulgence harms reputation and conscience.

Key Takeaway

Limit indulgence and seek genuine connection.

Themes

self‑control social behavior reputation humility

Mood

reflective critical cautionary

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dinner parties
  • celebrations
  • networking events

Key Concepts

excess vanity social pressure

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does overindulgence affect your self‑respect?
  • What alternatives bring authentic enjoyment?
A Different Perspective

It can be difficult to resist peer pressure in lively settings.

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