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The event of falling in love is of such a nature that we…

“The event of falling in love is of such a nature that we are right to reject as intolerable the idea that it should be transitory. In one high bound it has overleaped the massive of our selfhood; it has made appetite itself altruistic, tossed personal happiness aside as a triviality and planted…” quote by CS Lewis
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“The event of falling in love is of such a nature that we are right to reject as intolerable the idea that it should be transitory. In one high bound it has overleaped the massive of our selfhood; it has made appetite itself altruistic, tossed personal happiness aside as a triviality and planted the interests of another in the centre of our being. Spontaneously and without effort we have fulfilled the law (towards one person) by loving our neighbour as ourselves. It is an image, a foretaste, of what we must become to all if Love Himself rules in us without a rival. It is even (well used) a preparation for that.”

CS Lewis

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love transcends self-interest, turning personal desire into selfless devotion toward another, reflecting divine love.

In simple terms: Love makes us selfless and focused on others.

Key Takeaway

Embrace selfless love.

Themes

love selflessness spirituality humanity

Mood

reflective hopeful inspirational

Type

aphilosophical spiritual motivational

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • parenting
  • community service
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

agape self-sacrifice transformative love

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you love others without losing yourself?
  • What does loving neighbor as oneself look like daily?
A Different Perspective

Love can become possessive or codependent if not balanced with self-care.

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