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“For too long we have been protecting the ones who have hurt us by minimizing our trauma and deprivation. It's time to stop protecting them and start to protect ourselves. We have been told and feel that we are responsible for their emotional well-being. We are not. We are responsible only for…” quote by Beverly Engel
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“For too long we have been protecting the ones who have hurt us by minimizing our trauma and deprivation. It's time to stop protecting them and start to protect ourselves. We have been told and feel that we are responsible for their emotional well-being. We are not. We are responsible only for ourselves.”

Beverly Engel

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We must stop should responsibility for others' emotional wounds and focus on self‑care.

In simple terms: Stop protecting abusers; protect yourself.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize your own well‑being.

Themes

boundaries self‑care empowerment

Mood

assertive empowering

Type

motivational psychological

When to use this quote

  • family conflict
  • workplace harassment
  • friendship dynamics
  • mental health

Key Concepts

emotional responsibility toxic relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who are you protecting at your own expense?
  • How can you set healthier boundaries?
A Different Perspective

Self‑sacrifice can be culturally reinforced.

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