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“People have a range of capacities to deal with overwhelming experience. Some people, some kids particularly, are able to disappear into a fantasy world, to dissociate, to pretend like it isnt happening, and are able to go on with their lives. And sometimes it comes back to haunt them.” quote by Bessel van der Kolk
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“People have a range of capacities to deal with overwhelming experience. Some people, some kids particularly, are able to disappear into a fantasy world, to dissociate, to pretend like it isnt happening, and are able to go on with their lives. And sometimes it comes back to haunt them.”

Bessel van der Kolk

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People, especially children, may retreat into fantasy to cope with trauma, but unresolved issues can resurface later.

In simple terms: Fantasy coping can mask trauma, which may return.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address coping fantasies to prevent later distress.

Themes

trauma coping psychology

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

clinical therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • parenting
  • school counseling
  • support groups

Key Concepts

dissociation fantasy resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you differentiate healthy imagination from avoidance?
  • What steps help integrate trauma processing?
A Different Perspective

Fantasy may hinder confronting real problems.

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