She would be very much annoyed," he said to himself, "if…
““She would be very much annoyed," he said to himself, "if she should see that... she would cough most dreadfully, and she would pretend that she was dying, to avoid being laughed at. And I should be obliged to pretend that I was nursing her back to life-- for if I did not do that, to humble myself also, she would really allow herself to die...””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Pretending to care for another to avoid ridicule can trap one in false obligations.
In simple terms: Feigning concern to keep face creates burdens.
Avoid insincere sacrifices for appearances.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family expectations
- friendship
- public image
- self‑preservation
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When do you feel forced to pretend?
- What authentic actions could replace the pretense?
May lead to resentment and loss of genuine connection.