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She would be very much annoyed," he said to himself, "if…

“She would be very much annoyed," he said to himself, "if she should see that... she would cough most dreadfully, and she would pretend that she was dying, to avoid being laughed at. And I should be obliged to pretend that I was nursing her back to life-- for if I did not do that, to humble myself…” quote by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
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““She would be very much annoyed," he said to himself, "if she should see that... she would cough most dreadfully, and she would pretend that she was dying, to avoid being laughed at. And I should be obliged to pretend that I was nursing her back to life-- for if I did not do that, to humble myself also, she would really allow herself to die...””

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Pretending to care for another to avoid ridicule can trap one in false obligations.

In simple terms: Feigning concern to keep face creates burdens.

Key Takeaway

Avoid insincere sacrifices for appearances.

Themes

social pressure authenticity relationships

Mood

reflective somber

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • family expectations
  • friendship
  • public image
  • self‑preservation

Key Concepts

ethics psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When do you feel forced to pretend?
  • What authentic actions could replace the pretense?
A Different Perspective

May lead to resentment and loss of genuine connection.

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