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“Unless, of course, you insist on identifying yourself with the people and things you love; and thereby seriously disturb yourself.” quote by Albert Ellis
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“Unless, of course, you insist on identifying yourself with the people and things you love; and thereby seriously disturb yourself.”

Albert Ellis

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Identifying oneself solely with loved people or things can cause deep personal disturbance.

In simple terms: Self‑identity tied to possessions creates inner conflict.

Key Takeaway

Seek identity beyond external attachments.

Themes

identity attachment psychology

Mood

introspective cautious

Type

psychological philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • materialism
  • self‑esteem

Key Concepts

existentialism self‑concept

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of yourself are independent of what you love?
  • How can you maintain balance when attachments are strong?
A Different Perspective

Over‑identification can lead to emotional instability.

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