Bullies often act out by marshaling aggression to cover up for insecurity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Bullies never want to acknowledge their own actions. They want to move through life without reflection or apology. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Marriage is an intimate relationship between two people. It is a bad idea to involve a third party. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One of the benefits of being divorced is that you no longer need to listen to your ex's assessment of the appropriateness… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Ask 10 people about their family relationships and at least five of them will report an estrangement. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
People who are combative in one relationship tend to be combative in other relationships. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Boredom has an important function, because pushing through it can unleash creativity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Climb aboard life's elevator, hit the "up" button, and see where it takes you. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Your job in life is to look after yourself and to find ways to get what you need - emotionally and otherwise… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
We human beings are definitely capable of loving more than one person, but it seems to go more smoothly if we don't… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You should not be hovering in the background, inflating the drama. Simply envelop him in love and affection and let him know… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
When you are wondering whether to say something negative about someone - even if it is true - the best rule to… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Healthy boundaries are important, but you may be building a brick wall when a picket fence would do. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
I believe that everyone deserves love, and sometimes looking outside your own culture is a good way to find it. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
The ability to break a loved one's heart is the essential contradiction in human relationships. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Friends tell each other the truth, and then friends stick around for the aftermath. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Absence really can make the heart grow fonder, even when the [man's] feet wander. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Individuals who are uncomfortable with themselves sometimes emit vibes that make others uncomfortable. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
When you are criticizing someone, you should speak only to your own experience - not others'. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
When the choice is between a demanding relationship and a vintage pickup truck, I'll choose the truck every time. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Groveling for connection from someone who compares you to Hitler is not good for a person's self-esteem. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Friendships can survive after massive disappointment, but only if both parties are honest with one another. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
If you feel guilty about not "playing nice," then you could easily alleviate your guilt by playing nice. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
When someone repeatedly insists that something isn't true, it increases the likelihood that it is. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You should not propose marriage until you have resolved your feelings about your ex. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Weddings and funerals are when you figure out who your real friends are. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Attraction happens when you feel important, valued, appreciated and wanted. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Sometimes the way through someone's tough outer shell is to do something obvious, thoughtful and sweet. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
[from a reader] I hope she learns to look for the joy in life instead of picking out negatives - it will… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Love is an irrational force, making humans do all sorts of strange and wonderful things like write poetry and take up the… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
[from a reader] Whenever I feel myself resenting someone, I reach out. I have made good friends that way. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
There is nothing more painful than being rejected simply for being who you are. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Sometimes the way through someone's tough outer shell is to do something obvious, thoughtful and sweet. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
If you turn the heat down on the relationship, she will soften, the tension will lessen, and she will eventually inch closer to you.… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
You must give and receive love only when doing so doesn't hurt others. That's the ethical path, and you should gain strength from walking… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
If you feel guilty about not "playing nice," then you could easily alleviate your guilt by playing nice. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
When you are wondering whether to say something negative about someone - even if it is true - the best rule to follow is,… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
Groveling for connection from someone who compares you to Hitler is not good for a person's self-esteem. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
Friendships can survive after massive disappointment, but only if both parties are honest with one another. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
Bullies often act out by marshaling aggression to cover up for insecurity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
When the choice is between a demanding relationship and a vintage pickup truck, I'll choose the truck every time. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share