Attraction Quote by Zora Neale Hurston
“I am the kind of a woman that likes to move on mentally from point to point, and I like for my man to be there way ahead of me. Then if he is strong and honest, it goes on from there. Good looks are not essential, just extra added attraction.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Woman’s Journey”, 1935
She seeks a partner ahead of her mentally, valuing strength and honesty over looks, seeing beauty as a bonus.
In simple terms: She wants a strong, honest partner who leads mentally.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize character and growth over appearance.
Themes
relationships
self‑growth
values
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- dating
- personal development
- relationship building
Key Concepts
mental compatibility
honesty
attraction dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance mental compatibility with equality?
- What role does physical attraction truly play?
A Different Perspective
May idealize “ahead” as superiority.
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