“Love back in the day was something that was taken serious and not abused and thrown around. It was something that was the thing you would find first in every relationship not lies, lust and unhappiness. Back then sex wasnt something a guy went chasing after not caring what lies were told and hearts were hurt to get it. Back then a woman didnt have to be so worried and afraid of a man hitting her because back then that man who did would have about ten others waiting to kill him. Back then women were not left to think they had to throw their self out there just to get a mans attention because a man wasnt chasing after his lust he chased after those things that made her different than any woman in his eyes. Back then all you did was cuddle, hold hands and kiss on date and made it more memorable than if you would start stealing bases and sex wasnt thought of until marriage. Back then when a man asked a woman to marry him he really meant he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her and be there when shes sick or needed that shoulder to cry on and didnt run at the first sign of trouble because the both knew that in a relationship theres going to be some bumpy roads, some arguments and hard ships but they knew at the same time that when you really love someone you stick together through those moments and even grow closer in those moments. Back then a father didnt run scared and abandon his wife and child leaving them hurt. Leaving the mother to carry all the weight on her shoulders pulling both roles in that childs life. Leaving that child asking why did dad leave? Was it me? Whens daddy coming back? Back then it didnt take fancy gifts, new cars, big house and all other objects to keep that flame going in a relationship that flame was kept going by all the laughs, smiles, heart to hearts, memories and every precious moments him and her share . Back then those women called their boyfriends and husbands gentlemen.. Now lets fast forward a little bit to now days. Love is being thrown around and mixed with lies, lust and unhappiness. Now sex seems to be something 95 percent of guys now days are driving on and chasing after not caring what hearts get hurt in the process. Now days you have so many women being miss treated , cursed and beat by their boyfriends and husbands and guys think its making them a man by doing this. Now days so many women are left to think they have to get a guys attention with pictures, dirty talk and sex all because thats all that 95 percent drives on and wants. Guys now days lust over a womans body letting themselves be dragged down by temptation leaving women to think that all he wants is my body he really dont know me, want to get to know or even care about me. Now days you have so many guys leaving his wife or girlfriend with their child. Leaving her to carry that weight by herself and him thinking all he has to do is send a check to be able to call himself a father.Leaving his child and her hurt. Leaving his child asking mommy if it was because of them, if daddy was going to come back home. Now days that 95 percent of guys expects to steal base after base on dates and think that gifts, big money cars, big money houses or jewelry is going to always be that flame in a relationship and be able to fix every circumstance of trouble. Now days so many guys ask a woman to marry her when he doesnt really love her and do it thinking it will be that quick fix to everything he has done wrong. Now days so many marry for the wrong reasons and really dont mean nor follow those words they say at the altar. Now days 95 percent of men arent the gentlemen that women hope most to find and have in their lives¦ That 95 percent really need to step up and then maybe Love will be taken just as serious as it was back in the day¦.”
