Art life Quote by William Maxwell
““Whether they are part of a home or home is a part of them is not a question children are prepared to answer. Having taken away the dog, take away the kitchen–the smell of something good in the oven for dinner. Also the smell of washing day, of wool drying in the wooden rack. Of ashes. Of soup simmering on the stove. Take away the patient old horse waiting by the pasture fence. Take away the chores that kept him busy from the time he got home from school until they sat down to supper. Take away the early-morning mist, the sound of crows quarreling in the treetops. His work clothes are still hanging on a nail beside the door of his room, but nobody puts them on or takes them off. Nobody sleeps in his bed. Or reads the broken-back copy of Tom Swift and His Flying Machine. Take that away too, while you are at it. Take away the pitcher and bowl, both of them dry and dusty. Take away the cow barn where the cats, sitting all in a row, wait with their mouths wide open for somebody to squirt milk down their throats. Take away the horse barn too–the smell of hay and dust and horse piss and old sweat-stained leather, and the rain beating down on the plowed field beyond the door. Take all this away and what have you done to him? In the face of a deprivation so great, what is the use of asking him to go on being the boy he was. He might as well start life over again as some other boy instead.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “All the Bright Places” by Jennifer Niven, 2015
The passage illustrates how stripping away familiar comforts and routines can erase a person's identity and sense of self.
In simple terms: Removing everything familiar leaves a person lost.
Preserve meaningful routines and relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- childhood home
- bereavement
- major life change
- mental health crisis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What core elements define your sense of self?
- How can you maintain identity amid change?
The metaphor may overstate the impact of material loss on identity.