Be grateful Quote by William Gilmore Simms
“To feel oppressed by obligation is only to prove that we are incapable of a proper sentiment of gratitude. To receive favors from the unworthy is simply to admit that our selfishness is superior to our pride. Most men remember obligations, but not often to be grateful for them. The proud are made sour by the remembrance and the vain silent.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: "The Partisan," 1855
Feeling forced to act out of duty shows lack of genuine gratitude; accepting help from unworthy people reveals selfish pride.
In simple terms: Obligation without gratitude shows selfishness.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate sincere appreciation, avoid selfish pride.
Themes
gratitude
pride
obligation
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace dynamics
- charitable giving
- family expectations
Key Concepts
moral psychology
self‑interest
Questions to Reflect On
- What obligations do you fulfill without feeling grateful?
- How can you express genuine thanks?
A Different Perspective
People may rationalize obligations as duty, masking selfish motives.
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