Again Quote by Will Self
“I've said it before - and I'll say it again: it always seems to me that we come to know our same-sex parents through the bodily and the involuntary; through a kind of fossicking of our own physical strata. As we come to resemble our fathers, so we re-encounter the individual who reared us.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Sexes” by Will Self, 1994
Understanding one's parents involves recognizing how our bodies and instincts reflect them, revealing deeper connections through physical similarity.
In simple terms: We learn about parents by noticing bodily resemblances.
Key Takeaway
Observe and reflect on how your physical traits echo your parents.
Themes
identity
family
psychology
self‑discovery
Mood
introspective
thoughtful
Type
analytical
reflective
When to use this quote
- parent‑child relationships
- therapy sessions
- personal reflection
- genetic counseling
Key Concepts
psychoanalysis
embodiment
intergenerational patterns
Questions to Reflect On
- How do your physical traits shape your perception of your parents?
- Can bodily similarity mask deeper relational issues?
A Different Perspective
Physical resemblance may oversimplify complex emotional bonds.
