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“Pretend" often confuses the adult, but it is the child's real and serious world, the stage upon which any identity is possible and secret thoughts can be safely revealed.” quote by Vivian Gussin Paley
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““Pretend" often confuses the adult, but it is the child's real and serious world, the stage upon which any identity is possible and secret thoughts can be safely revealed.””

Vivian Gussin Paley

About This Quote

Source Book: The Whole-Brain Child, Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson, 2011

Pretend play creates a safe space where children explore identity and reveal hidden thoughts.

In simple terms: Pretend play lets children explore selves safely.

Key Takeaway

Encourage imaginative play for emotional insight.

Themes

childhood play identity psychology

Mood

playful insightful

Type

educational psychological

When to use this quote

  • early education
  • therapy sessions
  • family bonding

Key Concepts

imagination emotional safety self‑expression

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can adults use pretend play to understand their own inner child?
  • What boundaries keep pretend play constructive?
A Different Perspective

Adults may dismiss pretend play as frivolous.

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