Be kind Quote by Vincent Kartheiser
“You don't have to be kind. You have to be calm. Once you start showing that people can affect your emotions, then you obviously don't have that much power. If a stewardess can affect your emotional life, then you don't have any power in life and you just showed your whole hand.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: TV Talk Show, 2015
Emotional control is more important than kindness; showing vulnerability gives others power over you.
In simple terms: Stay calm, not just kind.
Key Takeaway
Maintain inner composure to retain power.
Themes
self‑control
power
emotions
Mood
reflective
determined
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- customer service
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
personal boundaries
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice calmness in stressful moments?
- What boundaries protect your emotional energy?
A Different Perspective
Kindness alone may not protect you if you reveal emotional reactions.
