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Family Quote by Vikram Seth

“Oh, no said her mother sadly. You know nothing of the pettiness of women. When brothers agree to split a joint family they sometimes divide lakhs of rupees worth of property in a few minutes. But the tussle of their wives over the pots and pans in the common kitchen--that nearly causes bloodshed.” quote by Vikram Seth
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““Oh, no said her mother sadly. You know nothing of the pettiness of women. When brothers agree to split a joint family they sometimes divide lakhs of rupees worth of property in a few minutes. But the tussle of their wives over the pots and pans in the common kitchen--that nearly causes bloodshed.””

Vikram Seth

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Suitable Boy by Vikram Seth, 1993

Domestic disputes over minor matters can erupt into serious conflict, reflecting deeper gender tensions.

In simple terms: Small kitchen fights can become violent.

Key Takeaway

Address underlying gender issues.

Themes

family gender conflict culture

Mood

reflective critical

Type

social cultural

When to use this quote

  • married life
  • joint families
  • inheritance disputes
  • community gatherings

Key Concepts

patriarchy communication social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do minor issues spark violence?
  • How can families improve communication?
A Different Perspective

Not all conflicts are about money.

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