Clash Quote by Vernon Howard
“We never get upset over what happens. Never. We get upset because of preconceived ideas as to what we think should happen, what we want to happen. When our preference clashes with the reality, we get hurt. Rid yourself of all preconceived ideas as to what should happen. You are then at peace whatever happens.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard, 1952
Peace comes from accepting reality rather than clinging to expectations; suffering arises when we resist what is.
In simple terms: Accept reality, drop expectations.
Key Takeaway
Let go of fixed expectations.
Themes
acceptance
mindfulness
inner peace
Mood
calm
reflective
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- relationships
- career setbacks
- health challenges
- daily stress
- personal growth
Key Concepts
cognitive flexibility
non‑attachment
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations are you holding that cause tension?
- How can you practice acceptance without resigning?
A Different Perspective
If expectations are too rigid, you may become passive and ignore needed change.
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