Good thing Quote by Val McDermid
““I don't like fighting,' he said. 'It makes me hurt inside. Like I'm a kid again. In the cupboard, in the dark. If the grown-ups are fighting, it must be my fault. That's why I don't do rows.' He blinked hard, to keep the tears at bay. She was the only person in the world who could make him feel so exposed. It din't always feel like a good thing. 'Carol, I'm going home tomorrow. I can't manage without you. Not in any sense. So can we stop this no? I can't do it.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Girl Who Came Back, Val McDermid, 2017
A child feels guilt and fear when adults fight, seeking safety and reassurance from a trusted person.
In simple terms: Children fear conflict and seek safety.
Key Takeaway
Provide reassurance and model healthy conflict resolution.
Themes
family
guilt
fear
trust
Mood
empathetic
concerned
Type
narrative
dialogue
When to use this quote
- parenting guidance
- therapy sessions
- conflict mediation
- support groups
Key Concepts
psychology
attachment
communication
emotional safety
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you help a child feel safe during conflict?
- What steps can you take to resolve adult disagreements peacefully?
A Different Perspective
The adult may also need help managing their own emotions.
