Long hours Quote by Tom Wolfe
““No wonder marriages used to hold up better. Sherman's parents and their friends had all had plenty of servants, and the servants had worked long hours and lived in. If you were unwilling to argue in front of the servants, then there wasn't much opportunity to argue at all.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Bonfire of the Vanities, Tom Wolfe, 1987
Wealthy families avoid conflict by keeping servants nearby, limiting opportunities for open argument.
In simple terms: Rich people avoid arguments by keeping servants around.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how social structures can suppress honest dialogue.
Themes
class
family dynamics
conflict avoidance
social hierarchy
communication
Mood
reflective
critical
observational
Type
philosophical
social commentary
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- workplace meetings
- political debates
- community discussions
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
Power dynamics
social stratification
privilege
servitude
Questions to Reflect On
- How does the presence of servants shape family communication?
- What are the costs of avoiding conflict?
A Different Perspective
If servants are removed, arguments may surface, revealing deeper issues.
