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Good Listeners Quote by Tom Perrotta

“They were good listeners, worldly yet easily shocked, hungry for details, curious and nonjudgmental at the same time, always happy to give advice, but only if it was requested.” quote by Tom Perrotta
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““They were good listeners, worldly yet easily shocked, hungry for details, curious and nonjudgmental at the same time, always happy to give advice, but only if it was requested.””

Tom Perrotta

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Leftovers, 2011

A good listener balances curiosity with restraint, offering help only when asked, fostering trust and respect.

In simple terms: Listen well, give advice only when wanted.

Key Takeaway

Offer guidance only when requested.

Themes

listening trust advice

Mood

thoughtful respectful

Type

advice interpersonal

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • therapy sessions
  • team meetings
  • mentoring

Key Concepts

empathy boundaries communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you wait for requests before advising?
  • How does restraint affect relationships?
A Different Perspective

May assume expertise without invitation, leading to resentment.

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