Family Quote by Tina Barney
“I sometimes get commissioned to photograph families, and they see the results and say, "Oh, I look terrible." And that's when I realize the difference between the people I choose and the people who choose me.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Photography Magazine, 2015
Photographers often encounter subjects who dislike their own images, revealing a gap between self‑selection and external selection.
In simple terms: People may reject what they see, highlighting who between choosing and being chosen.
Key Takeaway
Recognize the difference between who you pick and who picks you.
Themes
self‑perception
artistic truth
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
observational
analytical
When to use this quote
- family portrait sessions
- client consultations
- gallery exhibitions
Key Concepts
photography
identity
choice
Questions to Reflect On
- How does self‑image affect client feedback?
- What can you learn from those who reject your work?
A Different Perspective
Not all subjects will accept artistic vision; some may feel exposed.
