Cruel Quote by Thornton Wilder
“He regarded love as a sort of cruel malady through which the elect are required to pass in their late youth and from which they emerge, pale and wrung, but ready for the business of living.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Bridge of San Luis Rey, 1927
Love is portrayed as a painful, inevitable rite that shapes and readies individuals for life's responsibilities.
In simple terms: Love is a harsh but necessary rite of passage.
Embrace love’s challenges as growth opportunities.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- young adulthood
- relationship crises
- personal development
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What lessons does love teach about resilience?
- How does pain shape personal purpose?
May romanticize suffering, ignoring healthy boundaries.