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Cruel Quote by Thornton Wilder

“He regarded love as a sort of cruel malady through which the elect are required to pass in their late youth and from which they emerge, pale and wrung, but ready for the business of living.” quote by Thornton Wilder
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“He regarded love as a sort of cruel malady through which the elect are required to pass in their late youth and from which they emerge, pale and wrung, but ready for the business of living.”

Thornton Wilder

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Bridge of San Luis Rey, 1927

Love is portrayed as a painful, inevitable rite that shapes and readies individuals for life's responsibilities.

In simple terms: Love is a harsh but necessary rite of passage.

Key Takeaway

Embrace love’s challenges as growth opportunities.

Themes

love pain growth responsibility

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • young adulthood
  • relationship crises
  • personal development

Key Concepts

existentialism human condition coming of age

Questions to Reflect On

  • What lessons does love teach about resilience?
  • How does pain shape personal purpose?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize suffering, ignoring healthy boundaries.

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