Adults Quote by Thomas W. Phelan
““Adults who believe in the Little Adult Assumption are going to rely heavily on words and reasons in trying to change the behavior of young kids. And words and reasons are going to be miserable failures much of the time.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Parenting Conference, 2018
Adults over‑rely on verbal persuasion with children, often failing to change behavior.
In simple terms: Words alone rarely change kids.
Key Takeaway
Use actions, not just words, to guide children.
Themes
parenting
communication
behavior change
Mood
frustrated
reflective
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- classroom management
- family discipline
- child counseling
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
social learning
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you model desired behavior?
- What non‑verbal cues reinforce your message?
A Different Perspective
Kids need consistent modeling, not just explanations.
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