Advantage Quote by Thomas Merton
“To love blindly is to love selfishly, because the goal of such love is not the real advantage of the beloved but only the exercise of love in our own souls.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: No Man Is an Island, 1955
Blind love serves ego, not the beloved’s true good.
In simple terms: Selfish love seeks personal gain.
Key Takeaway
Love for others’ benefit, not self.
Themes
love
ego
selflessness
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- volunteering
- leadership
Key Concepts
ethics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What does loving without expectation feel like?
- How to recognize self‑serving love?
A Different Perspective
Blind love can sometimes protect from hurt.
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