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Ache Quote by Thomas Lynch

“Whatever’s there to feel, feel it – the riddance, the relief, the fright and freedom, the fear of forgetting, the dull ache of your own mortality. Get with someone you can trust with tears, with anger, and wonderment and utter silence. Get that part done – the sooner the better. The only way…” quote by Thomas Lynch
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“Whatever’s there to feel, feel it – the riddance, the relief, the fright and freedom, the fear of forgetting, the dull ache of your own mortality. Get with someone you can trust with tears, with anger, and wonderment and utter silence. Get that part done – the sooner the better. The only way around these things is through them.”

Thomas Lynch

About This Quote

Source Essay: "The Art of Dying" by Thomas Lynch, 2015

Facing all emotions—fear, relief, mortality—directly, especially with trusted companions, leads to authentic healing.

In simple terms: Confront feelings with trusted others for healing.

Key Takeaway

Face emotions head‑on with support.

Themes

mortality emotional honesty healing

Mood

somber introspective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • grief counseling
  • therapy
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

vulnerability trust acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • Which emotion are you avoiding?
  • Who can you trust to share your deepest feelings?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding emotions can prolong suffering and hinder growth.

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