Names Quote by Thomas Bailey Aldrich
““Whenever a new scholar came to out school, I used to confront him at recess with the following words: 'My name's Tom Bailey: what's your name?' If the name struck me favorably, I shook hands with the new pupil cordially; but if it didn't I would turn on my heel, for I was particular in this point. Such names as Higgins, Wiggins, and Spriggins were deadly afronts to my ear; while Lapgdon, Wallace, Blake, and the like, were passing words to my confidence and esteem.””
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Schoolboy” published in 1882 in The Atlantic Monthly
He describes judging peers by their names, preferring those that sound pleasant.
In simple terms: Names influence first impressions and social acceptance
Key Takeaway
Be mindful of superficial judgments based on trivial traits.
Themes
social interaction
prejudice
identity
first impressions
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
observational
literary
When to use this quote
- classroom introductions
- networking events
- online usernames
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
social psychology
personal preference
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you form opinions about strangers?
- Can you separate name from character?
A Different Perspective
Names are arbitrary and should not dictate respect or trust.
