Balance Quote by Thomas a Kempis
“How seldom we weigh our neighbor in the same balance with ourselves.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Imitation of Christ, Thomas à Kempis, 1418
We often judge others by stricter standards than we apply to ourselves, leading to hypocrisy and unfairness.
In simple terms: We judge others harder than ourselves.
Treat others as you wish to be treated.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace interactions
- conflict resolution
- community building
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you hold others to higher standards than yourself?
- How would fairness change your relationships?
People may argue that self‑compassion can be misinterpreted as selfishness.