Anger Quote by Thomas a Kempis
“Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Imitation of Christ by Thomas à Kempis, 1418
Accept that you cannot control others or even yourself fully; focus on personal growth instead of imposing wishes on others.
In simple terms: You can’t change others or yourself completely; work on yourself.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate self‑improvement, not control over others.
Themes
self‑improvement
acceptance
humility
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
- self‑development
Key Concepts
Stoicism
Christian ethics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you shift focus from changing others to improving yourself?
- What personal habits reflect your true wishes?
A Different Perspective
Change is limited; external expectations often cause frustration.
