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Historical-romance Quote by Tessa Dare

“If it’s a wife you want,” she said, “surely you could find many women—many well-bred ladies—who would be willing to marry you.” “Yes, but I’d have to find them. This saves me so much effort.” She threw him a sidelong glance. “Can you not hear yourself? Do you truly not know how insulting that…” quote by Tessa Dare
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““If it’s a wife you want,” she said, “surely you could find many women—many well-bred ladies—who would be willing to marry you.” “Yes, but I’d have to find them. This saves me so much effort.” She threw him a sidelong glance. “Can you not hear yourself? Do you truly not know how insulting that sounds?” “I should think it sounds beneficent. I’m offering you a title and fortune. All you have to do is lie back in the dark, then spend nine months swelling up like a tick. What could possibly deter any woman from accepting?””

Tessa Dare

About This Quote

Source Novel: "A Lady's Revenge" (historical romance), 2015

She highlights the absurdity of treating marriage as a transactional title, exposing the dehumanizing view of women as commodities.

In simple terms: Marriage is portrayed as a business deal, not a partnership.

Key Takeaway

Question the commodification of relationships.

Themes

gender roles marriage power dynamics feminism

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • courtship negotiations
  • arranged marriage discussions
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

objectification social expectations economic exchange

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would a partnership based on mutual respect look like?
  • How do modern expectations differ from historical portrayals?
A Different Perspective

The dialogue may simplify complex historical gender norms.

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