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Breathe Quote by Terry Tempest Williams

“A friend of mine said to me not long ago, "Terry you are married to sorrow." I looked at him and said, "No, I am not married to sorrow, I just choose not to look away." To not avert our eyes to suffering is to trust the power of presence. Joy emerges through suffering. Suffering is a component of…” quote by Terry Tempest Williams
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“A friend of mine said to me not long ago, "Terry you are married to sorrow." I looked at him and said, "No, I am not married to sorrow, I just choose not to look away." To not avert our eyes to suffering is to trust the power of presence. Joy emerges through suffering. Suffering is a component of joy. Whether we are sitting with a loved one dying or witnessing dolphins side-by-side watching the oil burning in the Gulf of Mexico, to be present with the world is to be alive. I think of Rilke once again, "Beauty is the beginning of terror." We can breathe our way toward courage.”

Terry Tempest Williams

About This Quote

Source Essay: “Presence and Suffering”, 2020

Facing sorrow directly transforms pain into joy; presence is courageous and life‑affirming.

In simple terms: Face sorrow, find joy.

Key Takeaway

Be present, even in pain.

Themes

suffering presence joy

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical spiritual

When to use this quote

  • grief counseling
  • environmental activism
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

existentialism mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does presence change suffering?
  • What practices help stay present?
A Different Perspective

Facing pain can be overwhelming.

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