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Esteem Quote by Terrence Real

“Healthy self-esteem is an internal sense of worth that pulls one neither into “better than” grandiosity nor “less than” shame. But the essence of psychological patriarchy is the nonexistence of such middle ground.” quote by Terrence Real
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““Healthy self-esteem is an internal sense of worth that pulls one neither into “better than” grandiosity nor “less than” shame. But the essence of psychological patriarchy is the nonexistence of such middle ground.””

Terrence Real

About This Quote

Source Book: "The New Rules of Marriage", 2020

Healthy self-esteem balances self-worth without slipping into arrogance or shame.

In simple terms: Self-esteem is balanced, neither arrogant nor ashamed.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate balanced self-worth.

Themes

psychology self-esteem gender dynamics

Mood

introspective encouraging

Type

philosophical therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • self-reflection
  • parenting

Key Concepts

humanistic psychology social constructs

Questions to Reflect On

  • What fuels your sense of worth?
  • How do you avoid extremes of grandiosity or shame?
A Different Perspective

Balancing self-esteem can be socially challenging.

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