Decision Quote by Tavi Gevinson
“I don't really read that much stuff about myself anyways, because I feel as though you then develop this mind-set of just making sure other people would approve of your decisions.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Guardian, 2012
Seeking external validation leads to conformist thinking and stifles authentic self‑development.
In simple terms: People often shape choices to please others.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize your own values over approval.
Themes
self‑esteem
authenticity
conformity
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- personal relationships
- creative projects
- social media use
Key Concepts
psychology
social influence
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you make choices based on your own standards?
- How does approval‑seeking affect your confidence?
A Different Perspective
External approval can also provide useful feedback, not just pressure.
