Family Quote by Tahereh Mafi
““Mother often said that she could never be bothered to understand why Alice did the things she did, and now, more than ever, Alice thought never being bothered was a very lazy way to love someone.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Shatter Me by Tahereh Mafi, 2011
Alice’s partner avoids understanding her actions, showing that indifference can be a passive, lazy form of love.
In simple terms: Avoiding effort is a lazy way to love.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address emotional distance.
Themes
relationships
communication
empathy
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
literary
conversational
When to use this quote
- romantic partnership
- family dynamics
- friendship
- personal growth
Key Concepts
passive love
emotional avoidance
Questions to Reflect On
- How does passive love affect trust?
- What steps can turn indifference into active care?
A Different Perspective
Indifference may mask deeper issues that need honest dialogue.
