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Astonishment Quote by Sylvia Plath

“So you got rid of your astonishment that someone could write so much more dynamically than you. You stopped cherishing your aloneness and poetic differentness to your delicately flat little bosom. You said: she's to good to forget. How about making her a friend and competitor — you could learn…” quote by Sylvia Plath
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“So you got rid of your astonishment that someone could write so much more dynamically than you. You stopped cherishing your aloneness and poetic differentness to your delicately flat little bosom. You said: she's to good to forget. How about making her a friend and competitor — you could learn alot from her. So you'll try. So maybe she'll laugh in your face. So maybe she'll beat you hollow in the end. So anyhow, you'll try, and maybe, possibly, she can stand you. Here's hoping!”

Sylvia Plath

About This Quote

Source Poem: Unpublished, 1960s

The speaker urges embracing competition and learning from a talented rival, despite fear of failure.

In simple terms: Learn from rivals, not just admire them.

Key Takeaway

Seek growth through challenging relationships.

Themes

growth competition learning vulnerability

Mood

hopeful determined

Type

motivational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career development
  • artistic collaboration
  • personal challenges

Key Concepts

psychology creative process

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would you gain from a rival?
  • How can you balance admiration with healthy competition?
A Different Perspective

Rivalry can breed resentment instead of collaboration.

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