Appreciate Quote by Sylvia Boorstein
“I know whether or not I am confused most readily by noticing--being mindful of--my capacity for feeling caring concern. ... when I feel myself in caring connection--encouraging, consoling, or appreciating--I feel the twin pleasures of clarity and goodness. It doesn't matter if the connection I feel is to myself or a person I know or people I don't know or even the whole world. The lively impulse of caring is what counts. [p. 20]”
About This Quote
Source Book: Radical Acceptance, Tara Brach, 2003
Caring for others or oneself creates clarity and a sense of goodness, revealing that compassion is the key to understanding.
In simple terms: Caring brings clarity and goodness.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate caring connections.
Themes
compassion
mindfulness
clarity
goodness
self‑awareness
Mood
reflective
hopeful
calm
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- therapy
- volunteering
- relationship building
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychology
spirituality
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How does caring for others clarify your own thoughts?
- What practices help you notice caring impulses?
A Different Perspective
Caring may be difficult when personal boundaries are blurred.
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