Choices Quote by Suzy Kassem
““How will people remember you when you are gone? And for how long until they forget? Were you selfish or selfless? A gossip or a patient listener? Did you add value to the world, or did you simply take from it? Did you add value to the lives of others, or did you take the value out of someone's life? Were you a plus or negative? Meaningful or meaningless? Do you live to take or live to give?””
About This Quote
Source Speech: TEDx Talk, 2015
Reflects on legacy, asking whether one's life adds value or detracts, urging self‑assessment of impact and generosity.
In simple terms: Consider if your actions help or harm others.
Live to give, not just take.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career planning
- volunteering
- relationship building
- personal reflection
- community service
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What lasting contribution do you want to be remembered for?
- How can you shift from taking to giving?
Hard to measure impact objectively; personal bias may cloud judgment.