Adulation Quote by Suzanne La Follette
“Motherhood, to be sure, receives a great deal of sentimental adulation, but only if it is committed in accordance with rules which have been prescribed by a predominantly masculine society. Per se it is accorded no respect whatever. When it results from a sexual relationship which has been duly sanctioned by organized society, it is holy, no matter how much it may transgress the rules of decency, health, or common sense. Otherwise it is a sin meriting social ostracism for the mother and obloquy for the child - an ostracism and obloquy, significantly enough, in which the father does not share.”
About This Quote
Society often values motherhood only when it follows patriarchal norms, marginalizing mothers who deviate, leading to stigma for both mother and child.
In simple terms: Motherhood judged by male‑defined rules, causing stigma.
Key Takeaway
Challenge restrictive norms to support all mothers.
Themes
gender
motherhood
social norms
Mood
critical
advocacy
Type
analytical
emotive
When to use this quote
- single parenting
- non‑traditional families
- policy advocacy
- community support
Key Concepts
feminist theory
social stigma
Questions to Reflect On
- How can societies honor diverse motherhood experiences?
- What policies could reduce stigma?
A Different Perspective
Changing deep‑seated cultural beliefs is slow and contested.
