Dear love Quote by Susan Coolidge
““IN SCHOOL. "I used to go to a bright school Where Youth and Frolic taught in turn; But idle scholar that I was, I liked to play, I would not learn; So the Great Teacher did ordain That I should try the School of Pain. "One of the infant class I am With little, easy lessons, set In a great book; the higher class Have harder ones than I, and yet I find mine hard, and can't restrain My tears while studying thus with Pain. "There are two Teachers in the school, One has a gentle voice and low, And smiles upon her scholars, as She softly passes to and fro. Her name is Love; 'tis very plain She shuns the sharper teacher, Pain. "Or so I sometimes think; and then, At other times, they meet and kiss, And look so strangely like, that I Am puzzled to tell how it is, Or whence the change which makes it vain To guess if it be--Love or Pain. "They tell me if I study well, And learn my lessons, I shall be Moved upward to that higher class Where dear Love teaches constantly; And I work hard, in hopes to gain Reward, and get away from Pain. "Yet Pain is sometimes kind, and helps Me on when I am very dull; I thank him often in my heart; But Love is far more beautiful; Under her tender, gentle reign I must learn faster than of Pain. "So I will do my very best, Nor chide the clock, nor call it slow; That when the Teacher calls me up To see if I am fit to go, I may to Love's high class attain, And bid a sweet good-by to Pain.””
About This Quote
Source Poem: The School of Pain, 1880s
The poem contrasts love and pain as teachers, suggesting both are necessary for growth, yet love is ultimately more desirable.
In simple terms: Love and pain teach us, love is preferred.
Seek love, accept pain.
Themes
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Type
When to use this quote
- education
- personal development
- emotional healing
- creative writing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you identify moments when pain taught you something valuable?
- How might you balance love and pain in your life?
Pain can be harsh and may deter learning.