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Children Quote by Susan Beth Pfeffer

“...when I came back, I found Mom sobbing at the kitchen table...Then I asked her what had happened. 'Nothing,'she said. 'I was thinking about that man...I started thinking about...if he and his wife and their other child are okay, and I don't know. It just got to me.' 'I know,' I said, because I…” quote by Susan Beth Pfeffer
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“...when I came back, I found Mom sobbing at the kitchen table...Then I asked her what had happened. 'Nothing,'she said. 'I was thinking about that man...I started thinking about...if he and his wife and their other child are okay, and I don't know. It just got to me.' 'I know,' I said, because I did know. Sometimes it's safer to cry about people you don't know than to think about people you really love.”

Susan Beth Pfeffer

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Last Book in the World, 1995

Grief can surface when confronting unknown suffering, prompting emotional release even for strangers.

In simple terms: Grief can be triggered by thinking of unknown people.

Key Takeaway

Allow space for unexpected emotions.

Themes

grief empathy family dynamics

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • family dinner
  • therapy sessions
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

emotional processing psychological coping

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we sometimes project sorrow onto unknown others?
  • How can we honor grief without avoidance?
A Different Perspective

Focusing on strangers may distract from addressing personal loss.

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