Children Quote by Susan Beth Pfeffer
“...when I came back, I found Mom sobbing at the kitchen table...Then I asked her what had happened. 'Nothing,'she said. 'I was thinking about that man...I started thinking about...if he and his wife and their other child are okay, and I don't know. It just got to me.' 'I know,' I said, because I did know. Sometimes it's safer to cry about people you don't know than to think about people you really love.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Last Book in the World, 1995
Grief can surface when confronting unknown suffering, prompting emotional release even for strangers.
In simple terms: Grief can be triggered by thinking of unknown people.
Allow space for unexpected emotions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family dinner
- therapy sessions
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we sometimes project sorrow onto unknown others?
- How can we honor grief without avoidance?
Focusing on strangers may distract from addressing personal loss.