“The first child was born by a woman that wasn't even a girlfriend or someone I have been on a date with. Come to think of it I don't think we have ever kissed. (a high school fling) her parents didn't like blacks now there is a half black baby in the family. The second child was born because this woman stopped taking the pill without my knowledge. (a fuck buddy) Now I'm stuck paying 1300 dollars a month to 2 women that I was never with. I have been evicted...homeless..and slept in my car some nights. Working my way out of poverty from a horrible childhood to dealing with this! 13 years now and I'm only 34. What would you do if you were me?”