““The challenge is that often when we think about success or think about our goals, we think it’ll be good, and there will also be something which is bad. Therefore we have an inner conflict. If we can’t iron out that conflict, we exhaust ourselves fighting against part of us that wants to do this, and part of us that doesn’t want to do it. We’re pushed and pulled in all kinds of directions by our own internal programs, many of which are unconscious to us.””